Correct, True, appropriate, right, fair, ethical, lawful. You are responsible for your actions. Sometimes facing the truth and having to taking responsibility for your actions is difficult. We have all made mistakes, we all have a past. What are you going to do going forward? Are you going to truly change or are you going to continue your previous patterns? Change is hard. Looking at yourself and your faults and your shadows is difficult. The effort you put into change is what you get back.
The thing is if you continuously are acting in a way that is not Tika or Pono you invite in disappointment. You invite in negatives, and problems that effect not only you but those around you.